How rude do you like them? (comments, that is)
Yesterday I posted a critical comment on someone else's blog. It doesn't matter where, or why, because this is not about that blog post or the argument I had with it. It's just something that the blog author said that got me thinking, along the lines of: "if you don't like this stuff, you don't have to read it". Now to be fair, I had been close to the bone with my comment, and much credit to him for publishing rather than quietly suppressing it, but at first I was a bit put out. Then I wondered how I would have reacted if I had received that sort of comment on my blog. In the end, I felt a bit uncomfortable about it all, and was pleased to give him the last word, even though I didn't agree with him because it is, after all, his blog. It did feel a bit like going into someone's living room and shouting at them. On the other hand, why do we blog if not to get a reaction? The internet is a public space in which anyone can see what you've w