On funerals, and Spitfire Annie
Yesterday I took a funeral. This is not unusual, although in our slightly smaller than average parish, we get fewer than most. When I first came here, after being the curate in a large seaside parish which we affectionately termed "the death zone", that was quite a relief. But after a suitable time to recover, I realised that actually I don't dislike funerals at all. I know some of my colleagues are a little jaded with the funeral business, and sad to say some are downright snooty about taking the funerals of those who only think of coming to church feet first, while others suffer terrible angst about what to say in the sermon on such occasions. But for me, when they work well, as it did yesterday, there's really nowhere I'd rather be. Admittedly this was an unusual one. Not least because when someone has reached 100, there's really little left to regret, and a great deal to celebrate, as I said in the sermon. Many funerals are much harder, ...